Ravings of a Nomadic Mind

This was 4 years ago and now we have a beautiful young son all of 10 months old. Like all parents we agonize over what we will teach our son and what he will learn when he goes out into the world on his own. This is a small list of things that i learned the hard way and wish that my son would pick up because this will make his life better. 

1. Read, doesn't matter what, read as much as you can. 
2. Treat your fellow humans with respect. You don't need to bend over and be subservient but treat every one with respect, especially those below you.  
3. If you don't know something, admit it. It will save you a lot of grief later 
4. Never lie or fib. It makes life a lot more easier & makes for less things to remember
5. Never stress about life. there is nothing that a good night's sleep, a good drink and good company cant solve.
6. Don't stereotype people, don't judge them before you get to know them. but if you do, never let your prejudices cloud your actions. 
7. Listen to your gut. That is your brain creating insights from past experiences & warning or encouraging you. 
8. Choose your friends carefully, they can be the difference between a mundane life and a happy one. 
9. Everyone Deserves A Second Chance.
10. People who are really good at what they do, become good with failure. Take risks, fail, you will learn more. 
11. "Don't hide from your mistakes, embrace them. A mistake is a chance to learn something new." 
12. Quit! The moment you realise you don't fit. dont take it to heart. Quit and move on. 
13. Never raise your voice! raising your voice is a sign of weakness and lack of confidence.
14. Fall in Love. over and over again. Profess your Love Loudly. If she doesn't reciprocate, let her be. Move on. 
15. If a girl loves you for your goofiness, she is the one. Dont let her go! 
16. Never bring religion, money & politics into love & friendship. Never trust people who judge you by these either. 
17. Learn to laugh, with others & at your self. Its the single most important thing you will do.
18. Never try to make others happy. If you are happy, the people who really matter will understand and be happy for you. 
19. You aren't entitled to anything! everything you have/get is generosity or luck, dont take either of them for granted. 
20. Say "Thank You" & "Sorry". Hold doors for others, smile. Everyone might not notice, those who do make it a better place.
21. You will mess-up. its a part of life, even if we get angry, it will be momentary. we will always love you
22. You are not responsible for anyone, you don't have to be. But stand-up for those weaker than you, your friends and siblings. 
23. If you see someone bully, be malicious or unjust, stand up to them. 
24. Never act in anger. You will always regret it. 
25. Learn to tune out the world! it will help you concentrate and be more productive
26. Never believe everything you read, hear or see. every story as another side. Question everything. 
27. Try and always finish what you start. You don't want to carry the regret with you. 
28. Be the one your friends will turn to in need. People turn to those with a good heart.
29. Girls/Women who become friends but who will never be anything more, will be some of the most important people in you life. keep them close and cherish them. 
30. Respect the women in your life. 
31. Learn to cook and do your laundry. at least enough to keep your self alive and clean.  
32. When you think your mother would disapprove of something, dont do it, or be completely sure it has to be done before committing your self to it. 
33. Never buy more clothes than you need, but always have a surplus of underwear and socks. 
34. Do not Bully or start a fight, But never back out from a fight either. 
35. Life will not be cakewalk, there will be hard choices and decisions. Trust your self and commit to your choices. You can do the hard things in life. 
36. DO NOT DO DRUGS. They will make you senseless, cost you more money than you have and make you do things you will not be proud off. 
37. Learn to drink. But dont if you cant hold your alcohol. Do not drink with everyone, people will videotape you and put it up on YouTube if you are lucky. 
38. The internet remembers everything! Be careful what you put out there. 
39. Dont do something at 17 that you would be ashamed of at 40. 
40. Get a Dog. Treat it the same way you would treat your child. 
41. Never trust people your dog is suspicious of. 
42. Be generous and help others when you are in a position to do so. 
43. Every once in a while. call your parents and your friends. Make time to do so. 
44. Nothing beats a good pair of shoes. Have at least 2. 
45. The way you behave, reflects on your parents and your friends. Do not make us look bad. 
46. Buy flowers for the women in your life, your mother, girlfriends, girlfriend, sisters and cousins. It is the best investment you will make. 
47. Pick up a sport, no chess or poker are not sports. Sports will keep you healthy and your mind sharp. 
48. Make a habit to run and cycle. it will also keep you healthy and clear your mind after a long day. It will also allow you to run away when required. 
49. Make listening to news and or good music in the morning a good habit. 
50. No matter what happens keep your head down, talk to your friends and family, it will Always Get Better.